How can something be a mistake or a failure if without it you would not have become aware of a better way?

We can’t always see the way life is unfolding in order to help us grow.

We need our mistakes as much as we need successes. In fact ‘mistakes’ are often a much more potent compost for the maturity of our being.
They also help us forge our determination and certitude.

Be kind to yourself. Let’s face it, ultimately none of us really know why anything happens in the big picture.