Don’t ask your relationship to be your everything. Receive and enjoy, but YOU BE your everything FOR your relationship.

It seems a common phenomenon that when we get into a new close relationship, that we can tend to somewhat let go of our self responsibility, our self care and our self autonomy.

Based on our past experiences, our conditioning and our (often unconscious) expectations, we can tend to kind of slot into a dynamic in our relationships.

Be alive to this! We can learn to use our relationships to see ourself, our belief systems and ego structure more clearly.

We can practice honing in on our patterns and our learning when we are feeling reactive, defensive or triggered.

Let’s hold space around thinking relationships are there to fix us or make us happy. They are there to enjoy for sure, however they are also there to help reflect to us how WE can be more empowered within knowing ourself better. How WE can come into being the happiness of our true self when we gain inner clarity with self awareness and take responsibility and care for our fears and insecurities.

It can feel like a hard slog at times, but with self commitment we can come into the fullness of who we really are. We can be our everything for ourselves and for those we love.

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