Life isn’t designed to give you what you want. Life is designed to make you find yourself.
People want the external first.. When such and such happens, then I’ll be happy.
It doesn’t work like that. Because when we get that thing, its not long before we are looking to the next. Our mental process hasn’t changed.
Happiness comes from attending to the inside. Turn it around.. when I am connected with my Self, when my heart is open and I feel grateful with all I have, I naturally attract good things.