Important growth cannot be rushed, avoided or pushed. If it is, it will not be complete, and at some point it will present again in another way or form.

Life is here to help us grow into our full Self. This can be glorious and fun and also at times challenge us to our very core and seem to tear us apart.

The main platform for growth is through relationship. We need them to be more strongly faced with our fears, our attachments and our unprocessed hurt.

If we haven’t done our part of the learning in a relationship, it will be there in us for another one.

Different relationships bring out different issues, and so in some way perhaps the cards will be different with a different person, but on a certain level, our core fears, issues and patterns remain the same if we haven’t taken responsibility for them.

Don’t be so quick to think the grass will be greener with another person.