We cannot know how it is for someone else. They have their own journey. Our journey is our journey and theirs is theirs.
We are all on our path, up the same mountain. This mountain appears different from different positions, and it is not until we reach the top, that we fully see all paths come together to the same point.
Spirituality has many paths, whether we have a religious path, an atheist path a yoga path or no seeming path at all, we are all still walking on this same mountain, this journey of life and self discovery. Whether conscious of it or not.